Young Women in Foster Care Lock In to Prepare for Adulthood

Photo: Tim Thomason

KERRVILLE, TX – Fifteen young women from the foster care system in San Antonio traveled to Kerrville with BCFS Health and Human Services staff to participate in the Preparation for Adult Living (PAL) Lock-In, an interactive event to help youth prepare for life after foster care.

The lock-in, a quarterly event hosted by BCFS Health and Human Services, is a 30-hour intensive version of the six-week PAL curriculum that teaches youth six life skills topics: personal/social relationships, health and safety, job readiness, housing and transportation, financial management, and life decisions and responsibilities. The goal of the lock-in is to help youth in foster care practice their life skills in real world scenarios, according to BCFS Program Director Rachael Fletcher.

“We want the youth to have all the skills they need to live independently, starting the day they are emancipated from foster care,” says Fletcher. “By practicing during lock-ins, they get a glimpse into adulthood – like how they’ll rent their first apartment, how they’ll cook for themselves, and how to make smart decisions and stay focused on their goals.”

Upon arrival Friday afternoon, the young women broke up into three workgroups, kicked off with some icebreaker activities, and each group was assigned a meal to prepare – breakfast, lunch or dinner. They all headed to the grocery store, with budgets in hand, to shop for nutritious ingredients for their assigned meal. After a lively cooking session in the BCFS Hill Country Resource Center kitchen, the young women cleaned up after themselves – another basic, yet important, part of the lesson, says Fletcher.

After the meal-planning session, the lock-in schedule includes lessons on personal finance, job readiness, and serious subjects like sexual health and human trafficking.

Several of BCFS-San Antonio’s community partners joined in to provide presentations to the youth. Ransomed Life and Traffick911 collaborated to lead a presentation on the dangers and warning signs of human trafficking, and Kerrville realtor Tim Thomason taught the young women about the process of renting an apartment (Image of presentation above, courtesy of Tim Thomason).

On the last day of the lock-in, the young women received a binder full of community resources they can access when they age out of foster care. For more information about BCFS Health and Human Services, visit DiscoverBCFS.net or call 210-733-7932.

“No limits” for Texas youth in the Colorado Rockies

BCFS organizes retreat for youth from foster care system:“The Leader in YOU: No Limits”

Youth leadership retreat participants in a team building excersice

NATHROP, CO – After being removed from their biological parents due to abuse, neglect or other family difficulties, youth in the foster care system often spend years – sometimes an entire lifetime – wrestling to overcome their experiences. Statistically, youth in foster care are less likely to graduate college, and are more likely to experience teen pregnancies, unemployment and generational cycles of poverty.

But, when 34 Texas youth primarily from foster care gathered around a Colorado campfire this summer, roasting s’mores, stargazing, and challenging themselves in leadership-building sessions, it was their unique skills and abilities that were front and center, not their limitations. The goal was simple but profound at the camp entitled “The Leader in YOU: No Limits” – inspire the youth to seek and find the strong leader inside them all.

BCFS Health and Human Services organized and fully underwrote a weeklong camp at BCFS’ Silver Cliff Ranch in the Colorado Rocky Mountains, gathering 32 youth from the Texas foster care system and several youth that overcame difficult family histories.

“Many of them had never been out of the state, much less in the mountains of Colorado,” says Stacy Lee, BCFS Program Director of Youth Services. “They were empowered being out of their element. I saw a definite rise in their self-confidence in just one week.”

A convoy of buses picked up youth from BCFS centers across Texas, traveling to McAllen, Corpus Christi, San Antonio, Abilene, and Lubbock before finally heading into the Colorado Rocky Mountains loaded with teens and youth, plus staff from BCFS and the Texas Department of Family and Protective Services.

“At the beginning of the camp, we asked the youth to name leaders. We got names like Barack Obama, Michelle Obama and Oprah,” said Lee. “By the end of camp, they understood there are different types of leaders, like a quiet leader or a supportive leader. They realized they could be leaders too, and it’s not just for popular, powerful or out-of-reach people.”

The 34 youth were selected from thousands BCFS serves monthly across Texas as a reward for maintaining high grades in school, successfully completing life skills courses, and staying focused on their goals under the guidance of their BCFS case manager.

Campers scurried into the woods and across the campsite on a leadership scavenger hunt, gathering items symbolizing the core values of a leader: communication, confidence, a positive attitude, inspiration, creativity and being a team player.

Between candid and emotional group discussions, the campers played team games, hiked in the woods surrounding their log cabins, and completed a ropes course which one young camper called his favorite camp activity because it gave him “a chance to help everybody.”

“Interacting with the other campers was my favorite part,” said the teen. “I learned that nothing is impossible. There’s always something you can do.”

Former Major League baseball pitcher Jimmy “The Rookie” Morris, whose story inspired the Disney movie “The Rookie,” led exercises that helped the youth recognize their individual leadership style. Morris distributed awards to the campers, who were eager to snap photos with the ex-pro and get autographed baseballs. Morris serves as BCFS’ Motivational Specialist for children, youth and families throughout the BCFS system of health and human service nonprofits.

“Jimmy asked some of the staff to get in front of everyone and share their personal trials and triumphs to show the youth that everyone goes through hard times,” says Director of BCFS Community Based Services Miriam Attra.

On the last day of camp, the youth were encouraged to show off their hidden talents in a talent show. Attra says she witnessed several young men and women who were initially shy transform into enthusiastic particpants.

“One of our youth opted to share the testimony of her life,” says Attra. “She said the whole camp experience allowed her to open up for the first time, and now she feels more comfortable bringing her guard down and trusting people more.”

“This trip helped me look at things from a different perspective, like the way I think of myself,” said another teen camper. “My teammates and my leaders were very encouraging and they pushed me to do things that I never thought I could do.”

Another young woman says her camp experience inspired her to share what she learned with her peers back home: “I did things that were out of my comfort zone . . . things that I thought I couldn’t do. I hope to one day help other people grow the way I grew.”

BCFS Health and Human Services operates centers across Texas providing case management, counseling, and education and employment assistance to youth in foster care and other youth struggling with poverty, abuse, homelessness or an unstable home life. For more information about BCFS Health and Human Services, visit DiscoverBCFS.net.


BCFS is a global system of health and human service non-profit organizations with locations and programs throughout the United States as well as Eastern Europe, Latin America, Asia and Africa. The organization is a national leader in medical sheltering and emergency management and response, providing critical emergency support services to federal, state and local governments. BCFS also provides residential services and emergency shelters for children who are abused or neglected; assisted living services and vocational training for adults with intellectual disabilities; mental health services for children and families, foster care and adoption services; medical services; early education; transitional living services for youth who are at-risk and those in the juvenile justice system; residential camping and retreats for children and families; and international humanitarian aid for children living in impoverished conditions in developing countries.